You or someone close to you may have echoed these thoughts: “Divorce was not supposed to be an option!” “I am done”. “It’s too late.” “If only he/she would just try counseling”. This very brief, effective specialized counseling is worth checking out.
Most likely, if it is you or your partner that are experiencing this deep dissatisfaction in the marriage you are finding that, spiritual convictions, strong beliefs, pressure, hopelessness, outside influences, ambivalence, guilt, resentment, or all of the above have you either grasping to hold on, or looking for an exit (or both).
I imagine that you want to make the best decision for the future of your relationship and neither you partner are at your best though you want to be. Please read more about crisis marriages on my website and consider brief counseling (1-5 sessions max) designed specifically for couples where one or both of partners is considering divorce. You can read more about this Discernment counseling by clicking here.
Better yet give me a call at 808-725-2375 for a free consultation or to reserve a appointment to get started.
My best to you,